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Rev. Sebastian Walshe, O.Praem. (™94)
Rev. Sebastian Walshe, O.Praem. (™94)

œAs a priest, the No. 1 question I get asked is, ˜How do I keep my kids Catholic, or how do I help them back if they left?™�

So reflects Rev. Sebastian Walshe, O.Praem. (™94), on a recent episode of Catholic Answers Live, in which he discusses his newest book, .

A Norbertine canon at St. Michael™s Abbey in Silverado, California, and the dean of studies at the Abbey™s seminary, Fr. Sebastian is previously the author of and . In his newest book, however, he takes a more pastoral approach, offering experience drawn from years in the priesthood to parents longing to give their children the gift of faith.

Alas, in a fallen world where all have free will, Fr. Sebastian admits, there are no surefire formulas or guarantees. œEven Jesus, who did everything perfectly, lost one of His 12 Apostles,� he acknowledges. œI can say this much: If you follow the advice I give in this book, it™s going to make it a lot easier for your kids to want to be Catholic, and even if they  go astray ¦ it will make it so much easier for them to come back.�

On this note, the priest offers a hopeful anecdote. œI remember one of my friends ” a wonderful family, but one of their sons sort of went off the rails there and is not living a good moral life,� he recalls. œI said to them, ˜What he™s got from his background and his growing up, and what he™s going to have from following this life, there™s going to be no comparison. And eventually he™s going to want to come back, and when he comes back ” and they have a bunch of kids ” he™s the child in your family that™s most likely to become a saint.�

The key, says Fr. Sebastian, is for parents to live the Faith themselves, thereby setting a loving example that will, ideally, set their children upon straight paths, but if not, at least give them a sense of where to return when they are ready. œTo be a Catholic today ” just to be a serious Catholic ” means to be very countercultural and to do things that the world thinks are weird. And on top of it, you have to be joyful,� he explains. œIf you are doing the right things and you™re living a joyful Catholic life, that™s going to help them either stay Catholic or come back to the Catholic faith.�

The journey may be long and arduous, but parents must remember always to trust in God™s providence. œThat sense that God is in charge and He™s taking care of your children,� says Fr. Sebastian, œhas to be at the root of every parent™s response to this crisis.�